Monday, April 16, 2012

Coaching conversation

I had a conversation over the weekend about coaching that went something like this:



We talked about marketing what a coach does and new ways to get the word out about our work with indivduals in our community and abroad. We came to the conclusion that although many more people would benefit from a coaching relationship the majority of people had such a comon human condition I would call, numbness.

You see being numb is the process of handling so much stress and responsibilities that there is little time to dedicate to self for reflection and problem solving of life's stresses. The majority of people choose to distract themselves away from deep reflection concerning their happiness. The distractions come in many forms which include; tv, major debt for adult toys and addictions such as alcohol or drugs legel or illegal along with many other forms of distraction. Change needs reflection, honesty with self and a commitment to change what is not working and change needs time. The time commitment to self is where there is often a coach can effectively draw out the answers needed by effective questions so there can be a much deeper understanding of crisis, assist with a healing and rebuilding more balance and happiness into the people we serve.

We both felt so passionate about our role in society as coaches and so honored to be of assistance to those who choose to welcome the work we do into their lives. We witness new beginnings, new ways of thinking and new ways of being, we are blessed.

Thank you.

1 comment:

Arlana said...

Insightful and thought provoking comments. I agree, time for self is a valuable commodity that few take time to honor or appreciate it's value. We can learn much from our time in solitude and in deep conversation such as this.

In gratitude, love and light...
Arlana

Welcome to Resolutions Personal Coaching


Thank you for visiting.


Resolutions was conceptualized and developed over the last decade. My training, along with my extensive social service experience has prepared me to pursue a coaching lifestyle and profession. I assist people who are ready to face their need to change stressors in their life.


The coach training and field experience gave me ability to quickly gain an understanding of the a client's personal dynamics at play and in turn guide the conversations to accommodate the needed change revealed. I received intensive experiential training and logged 1000+ hours of field experience before becoming a capable Life Coach.


MY COACHING PRIORITIES:

1.. clarify your priorities

2. listen without judgement

3. support your chosen direction



What Is my role as your Personal Coach?

First of all, what a coach is not is a therapist or counselor. A coach does not keep you stuck in the past events of life.

Together, we will clarify your present situation, clearly lay it out so it can be witnessed, acknowledged and understood.

I will assist you to challenge old beliefs patterns that may have you stuck from trying to advance toward your goals.


I assist with advanced problem solving skills to facilitate changes wanted by you.

I will assist to define your steps or actions neccesary.

I support and hold you accountable to the steps you define.


The coaching process will give you a higher understanding of yourself and your ability to reach your goals faster.

Coaching is a one on one conversation that will facilitate change to address any aspect of your life such as;

self discovery or full expression of self

family or friends communication

health and happiness

employment goals

higher income

esteem

ideas

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But why would you need a coach?

The training tools I have received and use skillfully permits me to assist you with a invaluable assessment of your present situation, help you identify the real issues without judgement and deliver quality supportive assistance to get the results, that you define.

Each of us knows deep down what is needed, sometimes we just have trouble problem solving and following through by taking the necessary action.. My role is too facilitate your thoughts and feelings into action.

I do not give opinion, which can often be received by a family member or a friend, which is normally offered based on what would be best, if they were in your situation. What is best for one person is not always what you should do.

Together we discover what is best for you based on your thoughts and comfort factor moving forward. I am always so honored to bare witness to this rewarding process.


Questions to ponder.

1. Do the same issues or concerns continue to effect you?

2. In what way do the issues effect you?

3. Why are the issues still present in your life?

4. What would life look like if the issues where gone?

5. How would you feel if the issues where no longer present?



Send me an email, lets have a conversation soon. You will be happy you did.

resolutionpc@hotmail.com